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When
a person has a fear of being judged, embarrassed or humiliated,
in daily contact with others, this fear may transfer itself
into a particular symptom, for example, blushing, panic
attacks, a lack of social confidence, fear of public speaking,
fear of new experiences, or perhaps stuttering or stammering.
This fear is often based on feelings of inferiority and concerns
about how the sufferer is seen by others.
It is perhaps the most common of all phobias and is certainly the
phobia most frequently dealt with via hypnotherapy, where
it responds remarkably well to Analytical
Hypnotherapy.
Many everyday events are, at best, hampered, at worst, made unbearable,
by the individual's fear of being judged by strangers and friends
alike. Shopping, eating out and a variety of social situations become
daily torture.
Add to this the fear that a specific nervous condition (blushing,
stuttering, panic attacks perhaps,) will arise at just the wrong
moment, ensuring even further embarrassment and it is not surprising
that sufferers often seek to minimise or even withdraw from social
situations.
Also known as Sociophobia and Social Anxiety, sufferers often worry
about a new event, often for weeks prior to the event itself; they
seek to sink into the background, choosing to keep their thoughts
and opinions to themselves, rather than to risk ridicule and judgement.
Specific symptoms include;
Shy
bladder, most often suffered by men, is a condition
whereby the sufferer finds it difficult (and often impossible)
to use a public urinal when others are around; usually choosing
to use a cubicle instead. Even the possibility of needing
to use a toilet in a public place can cause immense levels
of anxiety, well in advance of the actual need.
Blushing is one of the most common signs of social phobia
and is most often seen in females, (although by no means exclusively.)
Sufferers often find that awareness of the onset of blushing leads
to increased blushing and a feeling that they are now even more
conspicuous, further adding to their anxiety.
Stuttering & Stammering increases directly in proportion
to stress levels - ensuring that sufferers stand out significantly
in relation to their peers, and the more stressful the situation,
the more likely the symptoms will increase.
Other conditions associated with Social Phobia include;
panic
attacks, fear of public speaking and shyness.
Social Phobia begins early in life, and usually gets worse with
age, to the point where the sufferer's life becomes severely restricted.
This restriction is the unconscious mind's way of protecting the
individual from stressful situations - after all, if you don't have
to deal with new situations, how could they stress you?
Because they recall emotions bottled up in childhood. Emotions which,
when identified and dealt with, will lead to the removal of underlying
anxiety. At this point symptoms diminish and will eventually dissolve.
Analytical
Hypnotherapy is a superb way of tackling Social Phobia. It treats
the cause rather than the symptoms, offering the opportunity
for a real solution rather than a temporary respite.
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